Being a girl can be frustrating sometimes. Why, you ask me? Because being a girl means we are expected to be in a proper manner, gentle, polite, etc...(all good qualities) all the time. Girls with good qualities makes people want to adore them more. Especially if we are talking about dating or marriage here. Let's say the guy brings his girlfriend/fiancee to meet with his parents. And what the parents saw was a rude girl with bad attitude, plus tattoos all over her body (just insert some exaggeration). What would they think? Of course it would be so awkward and uncomfortable! Worse comes to worst, the parents do not agree to the wedding. Pretty bad, huh? That's why being a girl is so hard and we need to give a good impression to others so that they won't misjudged us.
Now, who prefers a girl with rude and arrogant attitude? I'm pretty sure no one would want that. Somehow there's still some girls out there who are with those bad attitude. =( Few days ago, when I walked past this shop, I saw these girls wearing so little. Their thighs and chests almost showed up! And they're hanging out with some guys who I'm sure were pretty bad ass too. 男人不坏, 女人不爱. Screw that! haha. I don't know about you, but if I was one of the girls and am spotted hanging out with one of the bad ass guy, I'm sure my family would be freaked out! They would be so disappointed with me. I wouldn't want that. Would you?
Moving on to the next point, being a girl also means that we have to be beautiful. I'm not saying we need to be perfectly beautiful like a model with great figure. I'm talking about our innermost beauty. Of course it is not a bad thing to have good looks as well. It's a good thing actually. But a guy who's willing to be with a girl because of her personality, not her look definitely is the right guy. A girl's look will change with time but her personality stays. Always remember that.
Then you heard some people are saying about how we should keep our appearance really well. Most probably from beauty products' promoters. What they always said again? "There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy ones". Then you start to believe them and apply tons of products on your face. Wow, that's not a wise thing to do though. Besides spending money, you might face some skin breakout. Then you're stressed over it. You lose money and you lose your health.
As much as I mentioned, "woman need not to be concerned with her outward appearance; it's only what's on the inside that counts", we still need to pay attention on our appearance. Going to school or workplace with unkempt, dishevelled and unattractive appearance will categorize us into "bad fashion" or even "ugly".
See how hard it is to be a female. A girl with a pretty face but bad personality (girl that has good look but rude, proud, and no respect to the elderly), No! A girl with not-so-pretty face with good personality (girl that has ordinary look but is kind, respectful, feminine, caring), Yes! A girl with unkempt outward appearance and bad personality (girl who lets her oily hair dangling all around her face and also rude, arrogant to people), Big No No! A girl with good outward appearance and good personality (girl who always look clean, feminine and is kind), Big Yes Yes! The last one is definitely the best combination of characteristics ever!
And I still wonder why on earth in the society, there's still some men who want to be female despite the hardship that we must face. LOL. Then I realised, being the opposite sex of us means they have to be a man and protect their kins. They have to work to support their families too. Then again, the women need to give birth to babies which is so painful. Not that I experienced it before, but that's what I heard from most mothers. Also, they need to tend to their families needs. They need to do the house chores. Maybe in this era, the opposite happens...like the husband is the one doing the house chores and the wife working out there for money to support the family.
If we're talking about me, I would want to be the one waiting for my husband at home while him working hard to provide us. I think I'm one of those traditional woman. ^_~
According to research published today, most men want a traditional wife and women are often only too happy to oblige. To be a stay-at-home mother doesn't mean that they should totally shut off the outside world from their life. They should take some times off to catch up with their friends. Fair enough. Maybe they can go on dates with their husbands, have a family vacation, etc...
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